Ever had that experience when you are anticipating that things will change, but you didn't expect the change to be so drastic... and it becomes hard to accept these changes?
i'm not just talking about my health. I realize quite a few relationships I've had has changed. I feel distant to some people that I used to be close to. What happened? I used to put a lot of blame on myself that I didn't work hard to initiate conversations/meeting (which to be honest, isn't really true). But of late, i'm beginning to see that relationships goes both ways. I can't be the only one working to maintain the friendship. If I'm the one who is "responsible" to keep the friendship afloat, what is the other person doing? what is the other person's role? just take and that's it?
i've got enough on my plate these days. I'm just tired. maybe I should just focus on relationships that encourage me as I do them, then me just giving my all and not getting anything in return.
changes are hard... its tough to accept them.. but I really got to try moving on.
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